Monday, January 22, 2018

Mothers - The Other Kind



I was reading a NY Times piece, as usual, criticizing Trump[1]. It does get a bit long in the tooth but alas one must be patient with those of such limited resources. Then, add to this, the BBC has a discussion on le Carre's descriptives of MI6, the equivalent, if one stretches it, of the CIA[2]. The BBC notes the terms for Americans as:

Mothers – the typists and secretaries for senior MI6 officials.

Now Mothers in MI6 were a bit more than just that. You see, the Brits knew very well that operatives were often childlike, demanding, and ego driven, yet wanting for care and attention, and even more so control. Thus, one did not need an "office wife", as the NY Times so aptly asserts, but Mothers. The "hand that rocks the cradle" and all that stuff you know. One must have spent a bit of time in the land of the Queen to best understand just how this works. One does not need or want an "office wife", yet many of these folks need a "mother". A "mother" in this context has power, authority, respect, and can effect things that otherwise would just run amok. Mothers can over-rule, mothers can direct and govern, mothers are the Type A controls for a Type A personality. Furthermore, "mothers" are those points at which remediation of mess-ups can be attained. If there is a problem at a higher level, the lower level folks can go to "mother" to get things back aright again. You see, "mothers" are essential to the balancing act of complex organizations.

A few Presidents had "mothers". Just a few. Mothers are powerful figures, especially in an MI6 environment, dotted with Oxbridge boys, a very class based society, smart but with a bit of arrogance. Unlike our CIA which has become at times more akin the Department of Agriculture than a want to be MI6 as it was in the le Carre times.

Did the CIA ever have its mothers? Not really, too un-American as the old boys would say. I also fear that too many American Presidents had let us say relationships that were anything but "motherly". Let us then leave the Kennedy, Clinton and others not to be mentioned. Yet, I do recall how my Russian partners would spark up when we had a problem and I told them to speak with "mother". They not only understood, but smiled because they clearly knew that "mother" would solve it for them. I thus often wondered if in Le Carre's world the KGB had its own version of "mothers", for it appeared as if they did.

Thus, perhaps instead of a "House Wife", as the Times suggests, what is really needed is a "House Mother", that stable hand to rock the unstable cradle.